The author, not pictured, was frustrated when her coworker asked if she was pregnant.Maskot/Getty Images/MaskotA coworker asked me if I had the "nine-month flu," but I wasn't pregnant.The invasive question made me spiral, so I started working out more.I eventually told my boss and learned to set better boundaries at work.As a married woman in my early 30s, there are places where I would expect to discuss whether I'm expecting a baby.