In the sentence that you quoted, "I wondered if" is not a polite form: he or she really is describing a situation in the past when, we assume, he/she was in love for the first time. At the time, he/she wondered whether the feeling he/she was experiencing was like love. And if it was what love felt like, he/she wanted it to continue. More @Wikipedia
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