"San Francisco has become an anything-goes city — but not in a happy-go-lucky way," Lisa Mirza Grotts said.Justin Sullivan/Getty Images In this as-told-to essay, Lisa Grotts describes leaving San Francisco after years of loving it. The crime and disorder she saw made it hard to live there and make it hard to visit now. She never saw herself leaving the city but has no regrets about moving. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Lisa Mirza Grotts, 60, a former San Francisco resident who now lives in Healdsburg, California.