Comment on Miss Manners: Should the practice of shaking hands with strangers be abandoned forever?

Miss Manners: Should the practice of shaking hands with strangers be abandoned forever?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Is there a polite way to avoid shaking hands with strangers? I was in a car dealership, and every employee I encountered extended a hand to me, expecting me to shake it. I know that they were just trying to appear friendly and open. But I also know that this is a good way to transmit diseases and pathogenic microorganisms. Many people do not have good hand-washing practices, especially after using the restroom, and it grosses me out to have to touch their hands. An infectious-disease specialist has even stated that the practice of shaking hands should be abandoned. Related Articles Advice | Asking Eric: My (now former) bestie is consumed by his bad relationships Advice | Miss Manners: It is rude to open an umbrella in a crowd of unprepared people? Advice | Asking Eric: I took a quiet friend to a loud Thanksgiving and got snarky blowback Advice | Ask a real estate pro: Why do I need two types of title insurance? Advice | Miss Manners: A family arrives late to a pizza party, so the kids get no slices GENTLE READER: Miss Manners generally agrees with you, but worries that the social disease of being unwilling to participate in formalities is also dangerous. If you can gracefully finesse another gesture — waving, or, in less formal situations, a fist bump — Miss Manners will allow it. Adding “I’m healthy, but don’t want you to risk it” will perhaps take away some of the sting.

 

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