Dear Eric: Six months ago, I eloped with a man I had been dating for two weeks. We are now expecting our first child together. I am a student, and I work part time. He works full time. He has this friend that drinks and gambles. Every night my husband wants to go watch his friend gamble and drink (my husband doesn’t really do either). The friend is on Social Security and constantly asks for money, which he doesn’t always pay back. My husband and I have been arguing a lot about this friend and the time and money he spends on him. We are living paycheck to paycheck.