Dear Amy: A new neighbor moved in. I left a welcome gift on their porch, like I do for everyone that moves in. He got our number from a neighborhood directory and texted us a few times, inviting us to visit. My husband and I went to their house and our children (ages 13 and 11) stayed home. Upon entering, the husband said: “Let’s get the awkward part over and hug.” Hugs came in our direction, and we gave them both a hug. During dinner he mentioned wanting to use our pool.