This is a (mostly) spoiler-free review of You, which originally aired on Lifetime, but is now available to stream on Netflix. Here’s the thing you need to know right off the bat: You is divisive. And that’s a feature of its design, not a bug. The story of an obsessive Nice Guy murderer as he tries to will the object of his desire into loving him for the rest of their lives might rub a few folks the wrong way.