So, yes, Lot's wife really would have been behind Lot. By the time he saw what had happened to her, he and the daughters would have been safely inside Zoar. The indication is that the wife was outside that town. The phrase "from behind him" does not create any problem. You would have to ask the NIV translators why they did not include the phrase. More @Wikipedia
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