Im a 27 yo guy and I have the same problem, if I can call it that. I often need to fantasize about taboo scenarios during sex or masturbation, especially when it involves molestation and reluctant pleasure. I've simply learned to live with it because it doesn't look like it will ever go away. As long as it stays fantasy, it harms no one. More @Wikipedia
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