To use Steam Overlay in a non-Steam game, you must add that game into your Games Library and launch it there. This method is assuming you're not using "Big Picture Mode". Click the "Games" tab on the top-left side of your Steam Client. Then click the last option "Add a non-Steam Game to My Library". Select the games you want to add. More @Wikipedia
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