But even after doing all this the Get Married option from the wedding arch is still grayed out even though my Sim's fiancé is around. 3. I learned from some other threads that the game doesn't let Sims marry a Sim in their employ and both of my Sims were in the Acting career (the groom is a level 10 actor and the bride was a level 5 actor) so ... More @Wikipedia
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