Once they get to the higher-level skill levels, they usually don't get the option greyed out anymore nor the negative moodlets associated with it. And as @Wndblwz said, the moodlets will tell you why usually as well as how long you have to wait until the sim will knit again. It just takes a little patience. More @Wikipedia
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