When the person expresses a preference on someone else's actions referring to the present or future: Subject + would rather ('d rather) + object + past tense I'd rather you explained to her why we can't go|"I'd" means "i would" so it should be: I'd rather you explain to her why we can't go. |I discovered your question with googling while struggling to understand the question and answer ... More @Wikipedia
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