This means that the team wasn't scheduled to play. So, in the case of the weather, you might say: The weather was very bad, but we weren't playing anyway so it didn't really matter. On the other hand, we have the meaning you want in the other option: We didn't play. That means that you didn't play. Playing was not done by you. More @Wikipedia
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