First we will start off with the stuff you shouldn't do. First thing is you should never use a soul whip for ghost grinding, ever since the agro changes soul whip became very bad for ghost grinding. The second don't is do not ever, ever use One For All on your weapon, looting is insane for ghosts and gives you a much higher chance to drop sorrows. More @Wikipedia
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