"I" is definitely wrong. You wouldn't say "My mother won't put up with I swearing" either. However, there are still two possible correct wordings: Either using "my" or using "me" My mother won't put up with my sister or me swearing. meaning she won't put up with us [when we swear]. My mother won't put up with my sister's or my swearing. More @Wikipedia
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