However, it may be difficult. I was molested at 12 or 13 by a pederast, and the effects have stayed with me my entire life, in the form of a conflicted sense of sexual orientation. Like you, I thought I wanted it. For years I struggled with the mutually incompatible ideas of hating my molester, and yet wishing he'd done more to me. More @Wikipedia
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