There are a few ways to recognise signs of hidden alcoholism and secret drinking. Here are a few questions you can answer to identify an abnormal drinking pattern: Does the user sometimes feel that they should cut down on their drinking? Does the drinker get annoyed when people criticise their drinking? More @Wikipedia
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