An apology shrug is: hands up in front of the shoulders,palms outward,fingers pointing straight up. There is no name for this... Hence, we have the gesture. This same gesture with the hands extended at forearm length is: "Back-off" (This is common enough to be described as "the signal to 'back-off'".) More @Wikipedia
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