2. Yes, "grow older" is also used. We can use "get/grow/become" with "old/older". 3. "grow old" and "grow older" do not have the same meaning: "Old" usually means an age greater than 60. "Everyone grows old eventually" means "everyone becomes 60 eventually". "Grow older" means become older than before. Children "grow older every year". More @Wikipedia
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