All three phrases have the meaning of being or becoming a part of. However, usage is different. Things fit into a container or something enclosed. She tried to fit into skinny jeans. Having lunch did not fit into her schedule. Fit in is used to mean being a part of a greater whole. More @Wikipedia
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