Do you want steak, salad, potatoes, or what? You can either look at your cake, or you can eat it. In the first, you must eat both your peas and your carrots. In the second, nothing prevents you from choosing steak and potatoes for dinner. In the third, you can't have your cake and eat it too. More @Wikipedia
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