The natural thing to say is on a cold night — or any specific night or day: on that night, on the night before we left, on Christmas Eve, on the last day of term, on my birthday, on St Swithin’s Day, etc. If you use in, you imply during [the course of] a certain day or night. There are few situations in which that would be appropriate. More @Wikipedia
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