Diapers are associated with babies. No adult, no matter how disabled, should be treated as though he or she were a baby. This may seem like nitpicking, but please, call it a brief. A pad. Anything you want. Just make the word adult sounding and respectful, and you'll have mastered tip one on how to get your parent to wear incontinence protection. More @Wikipedia
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