Unfortunately, nobody has even the slightest clue as to what this has been like for the last 15 years, but like you said, really for the entirety of the marriage. They also don't believe that emotional abuse and/or mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual abandonment/desertion are Biblical grounds for divorce. More @Wikipedia
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