UDIMM is a DIMM that is not registered (buffered), typical consumer computer memory. SO-DIMM is a different pin layout for laptops usually. edit: note that memory is sold to work as a set, even another of the same may not work -- although it usually does. Mixing speeds or timings will make success much less likely. More @Wikipedia
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