The problem with using Dear Sir in the way in which the OP is considering using it (i.e. with a name) is not that it is 'over-formal', but that (setting aside the cases in which the person has actually been knighted) Dear Sir has traditionally been used when the person's name is not known to the writer. Many people nowadays also find it ... More @Wikipedia
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