DEAR MISS MANNERS: Is there a polite way to deal with those relatives who constantly tease you, make fun of you and remind you of the stupid, mean things you did when you were young? Related Articles Advice | Miss Manners: The phone does work both ways, but maybe I shouldn’t have told my friend that Advice | Miss Manners: It’s inappropriate for my boyfriend’s stepmother to kiss him on the lips Advice | Miss Manners: I’m grateful that an adult once taught me how to eat a tomato Advice | Miss Manners: My sister cut off contact, then I received a wedding invitation Advice | Miss Manners: They wrongly imply my brother and I are a couple Naturally enough, I avoid these relatives whenever possible.