Pam Allyn says there are other options to gentle parenting, one of which is structured parenting.Courtesy of Pam AllynPam Allyn is an educator and parenting researcher.She says gentle parenting has become too prescriptive and unrealistic.Structured parenting lets kids know what to expect.This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Pam Allyn, founder of Dewey, which creates educational learning tools for parents and educators.