edward cisneros/Unsplash A break-up doesn't mean a relationship has failed. Unnecessary fights and monotonous conversations are common signs that a break-up is overdue. When there are more negatives than positives in your relationship, both you and your partner deserve more. Instagrammer and sex educator Zoe Ligon recently shared some important wisdom (gleaned from her time attending a sex-positive conference) with her 128,000 followers: "Relationships are NOT more important than the individuals within it," she wrote.