Dear Eric: I just love your column – read it every day. I don’t miss it because your advice is straightforward, right-on, sensible and kind. Related Articles Advice | Asking Eric: I’m not the bride, but I’ve still been disowned over the guest list Advice | Miss Manners: How does one give a wedding gift without a checkbook? Advice | Asking Eric: We’d rather this houseguest not hand-wash the dishes Advice | Miss Manners: How do I deter these self-invited party crashers? Advice | Asking Eric: This is why I’m glad I stopped giving gifts to my nieces and nephews So, I saw myself in the letter from the friend of a woman who is so kind and so helpful to everyone else but rather controlling and beastly with her husband (“Bad-Mouthing Do-Gooder”).