Dear Eric: I have a nephew who is disrespectful and condescending to me. He has been since he was a little boy but is now over 30. Related Articles Advice | Asking Eric: I’m a widow and regret letting my negative, resentful new boyfriend move in Advice | Asking Eric: I don’t want to pay for my husband’s gross grocery splurges Advice | Asking Eric: I’m embarrassed by my friend’s doggie bag shenanigans Advice | Asking Eric: They say they like my girlfriend but not my songs about her Advice | Asking Eric: I may be wrong but I swear my boyfriend is flirting with younger women My husband and son tell me he just always needs to be the smartest person in the room and not to take it personally.