I'm non-mongamous and my partner is monogamous.Marjan RiaziFernanda Fabian, 30, is non-monogamous and her partner of six years is monogamous.They've figured out how to make their relationship work.Fabian is open to closing their relationship for some time if they both feel it's needed.This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Fernanda Fabian, the host of Polycurious podcast.