It's normal to have questions about such an important event as a wedding.Geoff Goldswain/Shuttershock As a wedding planner, I've heard my fair share of questions some guests feel embarrassed to ask. You shouldn't ask to bring a plus-one unless you're a VIP or need one for accessibility reasons. If you already gave the couple a wedding gift, you don't need to bring another to the event. Planning a wedding can be a lot of work, but attending one can also be quite stressful.