Andy Raskin found it difficult to summarize "The Ramen King and I: How the Inventor of Instant Noodles Fixed My Love Life" (Gotham Books, $26), so he asked his Facebook friends for aid. About 100, he says, helped hone the paragraph on the back of his book. It explains that his memoir is about how Momofuku Ando, who invented instant noodles, became an "unlikely spiritual guide" in Raskin's quest to confront his "pattern of infidelity and betrayal" in romantic relationships.