We may never find that perfect person. But we can still love and see an imperfect person perfectly. Not long ago I shared a story on forgiveness with a dear church congregation I was visiting, which was having its brief walk through “ulcers gultch.” Here is how the story goes …If you look at the book in the eighth division of the gospel of John, you see a picture of a woman about to be stoned because she had messed up so bad.