... After all (again, roughly), he didn't get to go to the mall and nap during the day like his wife did ... home with the baby. I've often wondered what happened." Are there letter-writers you wonder about to this day? While I'm away, readers nominate some who stayed in mind. http://wapo.st/13Mtv83 September 1, 2006 Adapted from a live discussion. Carolyn: Maybe you can help me out with my problem.