Dear Eric: My wife and I have been married for 11 years and are parents to three kids. Related Articles Advice | Asking Eric: When our grandnephew visits, he can’t stay off his video games Advice | Asking Eric: My widowed friend cancelled our long-planned dinner date at the last moment Advice | Asking Eric: I saw what my teen calls me in his phone contacts Advice | Asking Eric: After the latest drama, should I just be done with my sister? Advice | Asking Eric: My friend’s messaging with celebrities has gotten out of hand We spend a lot of time together, eat dinner every night as a family and try to have one fun event with the kids each weekend. Occasionally, an event with my friends comes up on a date when my wife already has plans with her friends.