Dear Eric: I’m 51 years old. I’ve been dating “John” for two and a half years now. After a year, he moved in to help with the mortgage. Most of the time he pays but if he misses a month and I ask about it, he gets angry which I find to be a very strange reaction. If I ever get mad about something he turns around and gets mad at me and often blames me. Most of the time he works from home and is on many Zoom calls a day.