Dear Amy: My dad has been a preacher for 48 years, and he’s been at his current assignment for more than 20 years. My family and I attend the church that he leads, but I no longer want to because of the disrespectful way in which the members treat my parents and my own family. My dad and I have spoken about the issues within the congregation and I’ve mentioned retirement several times, but he sees me as his child who should always support him by attending his church. I dread services because it’s pretty much guaranteed that someone will make a hateful comment to me.