Dear Amy: I never thought I would be coping with some silly wedding drama, but our daughter (out of state) is planning her wedding. She would like to exclude one uncle (my sister’s husband) from attending. (My sister and her husband are the only relatives that have actually visited with my daughter and her fiancé in their local city.) As per my daughter, this uncle has not offended them personally, however, they fear that he has strong views, and that if he drinks he may say something upsetting to their guests. I know this will cause a lot of confusion and pain.