Dear Amy: My daughter, who moved to the East Coast for college 15 years ago, recently had a baby. My husband and I, recently retired, came out from the West Coast for the baby’s birth and were convinced to move. We upended everything, moved 12 minutes away from our daughter and now watch our grandson four days a week, which is great. My daughter’s in-laws live about an hour away and now that the baby is older they have resumed their routine of Sunday dinners, with my daughter, son-in-law and grandson.