Dear Amy: My wife is a doctor who, at the beginning of the pandemic, needed to be extremely cautious about her exposure to COVID. We asked our adult daughter, “Sarah,” to limit the circle of people she had personal contact with so we could still have in-person visits with her and our grandchildren, while protecting my wife’s patients. One day we saw a picture of Sarah on social media having cocktails unmasked and indoors at a mutual friend “Carrie’s” house. We informed both Sarah and Carrie that Sarah now had to quarantine for two weeks. We called Carrie to ask her to stop these invitations so that we could see our daughter. While we were on the phone with Carrie, she texted Sarah to invite her for cocktails that evening (Sarah was sitting next to us while we called)! My wife later told Carrie how angry we were. Carrie brushed this off and said my wife was being overly sensitive. A few weeks later, Carrie’s husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer.