Chloe Woodward was crying so hard she was having trouble breathing. It was late on Jan. 2, 2018, and she needed someone to help calm her down. She walked into a friend’s dorm room at the University of Maine at Farmington, where they were both students. Something bad had just happened, she told her friend without giving him details. Her friend hugged her until she could take deeper breaths, and Woodward left to call her boyfriend from her room, she said.