Have you heard the one about the couple who received a beautiful crystal bowl as an anniversary gift? Jodi Newbern has. The cautionary tale carries a wince-worthy punch line. "It was all packed up and looked like it had never been used," she said. "When they took it out to use it, in the bottom of the box -- underneath the bowl, under the packaging -- was a gift card from the person who had originally given it to the people who had given it to them."