4. It's a personal preference. Both "hi there" and "hi" are informal greetings that can be used interchangeably. That being said, I rarely (if ever) hear someone use "hey there" or "hi there". I would say that those forms have fallen into relative disuse. If you happen to be a Mouseketeer in the 1950's, you may not have a choice in the matter. More @Wikipedia
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