They didn't have a bad relationship. The producers asked Rue to call Bea and get her to accept the role of Dorothy. Bea accepted Rue's call and took the role after hearing that Rue would be playing "Sue Ann Nivens" and that Betty White would be playing the dunce role. More @Wikipedia
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