The author has a unique parenting style.Courtesy of Stacy HochMy daughter couldn't tie her shoes until she was 9 because she had no interest before that.I only teach my children things when they show an interest in that task.That means they are behind in some regards, but I don't want to push them when they aren't ready.My daughter needed a new pair of shoes for a hike we were about to go on, which was easier said than done.