Murder charge for Glenbrook dad who abandoned daughter in NYC bus depot Investigators quietly walked Elmer Gomez Ruano, 32, into the sally port behind Stamford police headquarters just before 12:30 p.m. About the only sound that came from the group as they made their way through a door was that of the chain slapping the ground that was attached to Ruano’s ankles. Barcello said police began questioning the girl about what she knew about her mother’s death, but quickly stopped after considering her mental health.