Are there letter-writers you wonder about to this day? While I'm away, readers nominate some who stayed in mind. http://wapo.st/13zyi1O Sunday, March 15, 2009 Hi, Carolyn: Please help; I'm desperate. My husband and I are parents to an 8-month-old son, and while we were very excited to welcome a baby, we have learned over the past eight months that parenthood is not for us.